Celebrating the life of Alex Williams

15-08-2012

Today we celebrate the life of Alex Williams, the Trust's first Young Ambassador. And what a life we have to celebrate!


Alex, you packed so much into your 18 short years. You leave such a legacy of affection, with all those you met and even those you didn't! You were kind, caring, loving, determined and inspirational (a word you may never have used about yourself, but we can assure you everyone else does). 

 

Alex, Nicole and Morven - Our Young Ambassadors

You were also fun, cheeky and full of life, with a fantastic sense of humour. People had to meet you only once and they were hooked. You asked and they said yes. A favourite moment of ours at the Trust was after you won the News of the World’s Children’s Champion award and met David Cameron. Twenty minutes later no Prime Minister has ever been better briefed on meningitis, what should be done about it and educated on the signs and symptoms of the disease.


Your enthusiasm and energy are legendary at the Trust. Despite everything meningitis threw at you, you considered yourself to be lucky. Adapting to life as a wheelchair user you did not see your disability as a barrier. "There is no way I’m going to let anyone go through what I did and feel it’s the end … it’s only the beginning, believe me." You were determined to show parents just what their children could achieve.


Recounting your experience of carrying the Olympic Torch to local schoolchildren you said: "I’ve really enjoyed sharing my motto of 'believe and achieve.' I hope that all the pupils will remember this and make it their own as they carry on through life."


We know you'd always rise to the challenge Alex. So, we have decided, with your mum and dad, Alison and Wayne, and your sister Abbie, that we are going to launch the 'Alex Williams "Believe and Achieve" appeal.'

 

This will aim to raise £1 million over the next five years, in line with our five year plan, Vision 2016, to help support our work with young people in your memory. And when we say 'our' work Alex, the 'our' means you as well.


It is appropriate that bright colours and happy memories are the order of the day at today’s celebration. While there will also be tears we at the Trust want you to know Alex that you will continue to inspire all of us, and we will drive forward, with you always in our hearts and always at the heart of everything we do. Thank you for everything you have done and what we will continue to do in your name. 


As ever, we will 'believe and achieve.'

 

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Posted by Margaret on
Great idea and a lovely tribute. Alex will be made up by this.x
Posted by RabbiRickman on
The first time I encountered Alex tears flowed freely down my cheeks. The concluding moments on the Secret Millionaire program were perhaps some of the most emotion clad minutes on TV this year. In these final words I find myself crying once again. I was only privileged to know Alex for a few weeks but in that short time we became friends. As a teacher, the 18 years old's in my life are my senior students. Alex was also 18 but I was his student. Alex came to our school and shared his story. He had not encountered Jewish students before. His delivery captivated 100 year ten students and teachers. He taught us that it is acceptable to dream, he made it cool to aim for things and work through disabilities to achieve, or in his words "believe and achieve". He spoke of his wish to amputate his leg and free himself of the pain he was in. I joked that we would celebrate and get legless. My colleagues were shocked at my joke, Alex burst out laughing and repeated it to us during his second trip to the school. The second visit he came with Matthew Newbury. We saw the genuine bond of brotherhood between the two. Alex spent an hour training the year 7 students in basket ball. He shattered the stereotype that wheelchair bound people can't do things. I am sure we will hear what an impressive human being Alex was. Alex was certainly impressive but he was not a human being, rather he was a human becoming. Let me explain. We often get caught up in wanting things, for example being happy. There are times when its not appropriate to be happy. King Solomon in the Book of Ecclesiastes teaches that " there is a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time for war and a time for peace." Life is not about being but about becoming, becoming in tuned with the rhythm of life. Alex lived this message. He could have been a victim of a terrible illness, instead he rose to become an example and inspiration to many people. He understood this secret to achieving in life. Alex I will miss you, we spoke of meeting again in the new school year, we had dreams, that will not be fulfilled together. Your motto will become my new motivational rant and you will be forever remembered and cherished.

Rabbi Benjy Rickman
Head of Jewish Studies
King David High School Manchester
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